Network marketers can often find themselves moping around, complaining and having self doubts. The words that come out of their mouths do not build up, release positive energy, or create anything good for them. Their belief system is broken.
If you find yourself in this mode, evaluate what kind and how much personal development you’re doing.
All business owners go through challenges and face obstacles but true entrepreneurs who desire success always find solutions and keep a good attitude through it all.
Having a positive attitude may not be something you were raised around but that doesn’t mean you can’t change. You can. It’s a decision that you alone make. You choose to have a good day or a bad day. You choose to have positive thoughts or dwell on the negative. It’s totally up to you.
We were not born to be poor, broke and broke minded. We each were created with a purpose and a destiny. We are born without egos, prejudices or any c
omprehension that we have limitations whatsoever.
Ask any child what they want to be when they grow up and you’ll get an honest answer. They will tell you what they want to be and as sure as they are standing there, they believe with all their heart that it will come to pass.
Children are not afraid of taking risks. Even if they are hurt falling off their bike and break their ankle, they are not afraid to brush themselves off, heal up and get back up and try again. As adults, if we had fallen off the bike and got hurt, we want to sue the concrete company. Yes?
Children have great faith and believe in things they cannot see, feel or touch. They are full of natural enthusiasm, are curious and adventurous, persistent in not accepting ‘no’ for an answer and to top it off, they just naturally get over things. Boy, the things we can learn from children!
As we begin to grow older and are surrounded by the belief system of others based on their past experience, we are conditioned to believe their lies and accept it as face value. Children are often told they are no good, they’ll never amount to anything, they’ll never be successful, they shouldn’t get their hopes up for anything great to happen to them, don’t talk to strangers, it’s too hard to be successful, money is bad or wrong, and the junk list goes on and on.
And, the sad part is, is that our mind containing our programming and memories believes that.
As a result, we develop wrong thinking patterns for years and therefore act accordingly. The body does what the mind thinks and believes. Then, as grown adults, we chase after guarantees instead of life and all that it can offer. We develop fears, anxiety, and we are unable to achieve all that God created us to be because of years of wrong thinking.
Don’t let lies and deception steal your dreams and life. You were born to be successful. It’s never too late. Developing a positive mindset is critical in business, let alone life in general. Take care of yourself and do what you need to do to get rid of stinkin thinkin.
A good book that will help you reveal your money blueprint is Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker. I recommend you pick it up. Stay in personal development as much as you can.
On a final note, personal development plays a key role in becoming influential as a business person. You may be interested in the series of articles I wrote on The Influence Factor.
If you’ve had to struggle with issues like this, I’d appreciate you leaving a comment so others can be inspired by how you overcame.
